Friendships just like any other is a 2-way street. You can't be friends with someone who doesn't want to be yours. You see, in any relationship there is, give-and-take, which helps you both grow in the relationship and as people. Once you feel the other is slipping away, you feel wary and try to talk things over and work some things out. Friendships just like relationships should never be forced. It should come naturally for two people who genuinely enjoy each other's company despite your difference. So if you feel like you give way too much with you not getting anything back, maybe its time for you to start re-thinking your relationship. Never be blinded by the label of 'friend' or 'being friends with', because really, if you love yourself, you have to get away from your toxic relationships. Even if you're friends with the richest and most powerful, that wouldn't matter if you don't get enough of the relationship. Not that you should be asking for anything but sticking with those that takes you for granted, makes you look at yourself, lesser than who you truly are.
Remember the people closest to you, influence who you become. Make sure you surround yourself with only the people who can make you better.
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